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Are You Struggling to Get Your Kids to Listen? 10 Tips to Help

Last updated: March 20, 2023
Patricia Watkins
By Patricia Watkins
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As a parent, I know how frustrating it can be when your children don’t listen. You ask them to do something and they ignore you. You tell them to stop doing something and they keep going. It’s enough to make any parent pull their hair out! But don’t despair – I have some tips that will help you get your kids to listen. From setting clear boundaries to establishing a consistent routine, these tips will help you get through the day with less stress and more cooperation.

IN THIS ARTICLE
Establish a Respectful ConnectionHave FunGive Clear InstructionsAllow a Response TimeBe ConsistentUse Positive ReinforcementSet LimitsGive ChoicesBe PatientModel Good Listening

Here are 10 tips to help get your kids to listen.

Establish a Respectful Connection

Make sure to establish a connection between you and your kids that is based on respect. Instead of immediately issuing commands, take a few moments to establish an understanding and connection before asking them to do something. Respectful connections allow for open dialogue and understanding between you and your kids.

Have Fun

Take time to have fun with your kids and make listening more enjoyable. Play games, read stories, or do something else together that encourages cooperation and listening. When your kids have fun, they’re more likely to stay engaged and listen. Plus, it’s a great way to strengthen the bond between parent and child. When you have fun together, the time will fly by!

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Give Clear Instructions

Give your kids clear instructions that are easy to understand. Speak in a calm voice and be sure to explain what you want them to do. If you give them a long list of instructions, break it down into smaller, more manageable chunks. Encourage them to ask questions if they don’t understand something or need more information. Show them that you’re interested in their questions, and make sure to provide a positive response. This will help them to stay focused and engaged in the task at hand.

Allow a Response Time

Once you’ve given the instructions, allow your children a few moments to process and respond. This shows that you are listening to them and gives them a chance to express their feelings or objections. It also allows them to be creative in coming up with ideas on how to reach a solution that works for everyone. By allowing your children the chance to voice their opinions, you are teaching them the importance of communication and helping them build self-confidence. Plus, you may even get an unexpected but awesome idea from them!

Be Consistent

Make sure that you are being consistent in your expectations of your kids. Don’t let them get away with one thing today and then be punished for the same thing tomorrow. This will only create confusion and inconsistency in your parenting style. Make sure you are setting a consistent standard of expectations for them, and stick to it!

Use Positive Reinforcement

Whenever possible, use positive reinforcement to reward your kids for listening and following instructions. Praise them for their efforts and be sure to let them know you are proud of them. This will encourage them to keep trying and make good decisions. You may also want to find creative ways to reward your children, such as offering a special treat or a fun activity. This will encourage them to understand that listening and following instructions are important and help build positive behavior habits.

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Set Limits

Ensure your kids understand the rules and boundaries and that there are consequences for not listening or following instructions. Explain that you are the parent and that you have their best interests in mind. Let them know that it is not okay to push boundaries or disrespect your authority. By setting limits, your kids will learn important life lessons and have a better understanding of what is expected from them.

Give Choices

Whenever possible, give your kids choices so that they can make the decision themselves. This gives them a sense of empowerment and will help them to become more independent. For example, when it comes to deciding what to eat for dinner, give them two or three options and let them choose. Even if you don’t love all of the options you give them, it’s important to respect their decision. This teaches your kids that they can make their own decisions and be trusted to do so.

Be Patient

Kids don’t always listen the first time. Be patient and give them a few chances to get it right. Young children often need repetition and reminders. When you have to repeat yourself, try to find creative ways to phrase the same thing. Sometimes different language or visual aids help kids better understand what you want them to do.

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Model Good Listening

Be sure to set a good example by listening to your kids and demonstrating proper behavior yourself. Show them how to keep their body language in check and that it’s okay to disagree with someone but still be respectful. Ask open-ended questions to get them thinking and talking, and actively listen to what they have to say. It’s also a great idea to be sure you’re aware of your own body language, so that your kids know you’re listening.

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Patricia Watkins
ByPatricia Watkins
As a mother of two energetic youngsters, I have come to realize that keeping my family happy starts with me staying sane. Writing has been an incredible outlet for both the frustrations and joys of parenting. It allows me to explore ideas and solutions that not only save me money but also fulfil our needs as a family. Motherhood is no mean feat, but I take pride in finding creative solutions to the challenges it presents.

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